Social and Emotional
Giftedness has
an emotional as well as intellectual component. Intellectual
complexity goes hand in hand with emotional depth. Just as gifted
children’s thinking is more complex and has more depth than other
children’s, so too are their emotions more complex and more
intense.
Divergent Thinking Ability
- creative thinking which moves in
multiple directions exposing many possible answers
- often appear to be disorganized
and absentminded.
Excitability
- high energy level, emotional
reactivity, or high arousal of the central nervous system
- excitable students have a high
need to explore the environment and enjoy new experiences
- many are stimulus-seekers, needing
stimulation to moderate behavior. If they are not provided with the
right type of stimulation, they become bored and overstressed
- Some emotionally reactive
children, rather than being stimulus-seekers seem just the opposite.
They are stimulus-withdrawers, finding stressful the amounts of
stimulation other people find comfortable. They act overwhelmed,
irritable, and frightened.
- Some also have trouble turning off
thoughts and feelings so they may feel powerful emotions more intensely,
and for a longer time than others.
Sensitivity
- extreme empathy
- particularly negative feelings
- experiencing the suffering of
others
- having intense commitment to
people or ideas
Perceptiveness
- clear sense of honesty
- often tell the truth even when it
may hurt someone’s feelings
- very good intuition
- little patience for foolishness or
unfairness
Asynchronous Development
- gifted children may appear to be
many ages at once
- Motor skills, especially
fine-motor, often lag behind cognitive conceptual abilities,
particularly in preschool gifted children.
- These children may know what they
want to do, construct, or draw; however, motor skills do not allow them
to achieve the goal. Intense frustration and emotional outbursts may
result.
- Because many gifted children are
asynchronous in their development it can be hard for the to find and
maintain friendships.
What can parents do to help?
- help your child to meet other
gifted children
- help your child to learn ’social
graces’
- model compassion and friendship
for your child
- talk with your child about
bossiness and bragging
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